Comments for A Miracle A Day http://www.amiracleaday.com Helping To Find Everyday Miracles Tue, 21 Feb 2012 18:15:14 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 Comment on Why Love Comes to Those Who Aren’t Searching by More Articles by Tonya « Tonya K. Vrba – Freelance Writer, Journalist, PR Specialist, Communication Expert http://www.amiracleaday.com/articles/2012/02/17/why-love-comes-to-those-who-arent-searching/#comment-1220 More Articles by Tonya « Tonya K. Vrba – Freelance Writer, Journalist, PR Specialist, Communication Expert Tue, 21 Feb 2012 18:15:14 +0000 http://www.amiracleaday.com/?p=525#comment-1220 [...] Why Love Comes to Those Who Aren’t Searching - Feb 19, 2012 [...] [...] Why Love Comes to Those Who Aren’t Searching – Feb 19, 2012 [...]

]]> Comment on What To Do When He (Or She) Cheats by C.N http://www.amiracleaday.com/articles/2012/02/10/what-to-do-when-he-or-she-cheats/#comment-1218 C.N Fri, 17 Feb 2012 01:39:44 +0000 http://www.amiracleaday.com/?p=515#comment-1218 Al that i just read nw is evrything am going trough. For sometime i thought i was being selfish and not willing to work tings out by taking steps forth and later on whn my partner thought we getting somewher an ill take 5steps back. Thank you vary much, reading the artcle opend my eyes somehow. Im gonna keep reading more of them and hope my relationshp of 7 years gets back,nt to being brand new but atleast painless. Im only 24years old dating a 27years old guy, and we are soo much in love it hurts. "what to do when (he) or she cheats. Al that i just read nw is evrything am going trough. For sometime i thought i was being selfish and not willing to work tings out by taking steps forth and later on whn my partner thought we getting somewher an ill take 5steps back. Thank you vary much, reading the artcle opend my eyes somehow. Im gonna keep reading more of them and hope my relationshp of 7 years gets back,nt to being brand new but atleast painless. Im only 24years old dating a 27years old guy, and we are soo much in love it hurts.

“what to do when (he) or she cheats.

]]> Comment on What To Do When He (Or She) Cheats by Jason http://www.amiracleaday.com/articles/2012/02/10/what-to-do-when-he-or-she-cheats/#comment-1217 Jason Wed, 15 Feb 2012 15:10:53 +0000 http://www.amiracleaday.com/?p=515#comment-1217 I'm sorry to hear that, Mark. It's hard sometimes, because there are all sorts of reasons that seem very legitimate on the surface to not share with your significant other, like not wanting to burden them, or sounding like you're complaining too much, or one of probably at least a dozen more. Some of them are even valid reasons to not share some given thing THAT DAY... but it's really easy to get in the habit of holding things back, and then the relationship grows more and more empty, more and more distant. It is possible, however (depending on how late in the game you already are), to start over and begin rebuilding and reconnecting. I’m sorry to hear that, Mark. It’s hard sometimes, because there are all sorts of reasons that seem very legitimate on the surface to not share with your significant other, like not wanting to burden them, or sounding like you’re complaining too much, or one of probably at least a dozen more. Some of them are even valid reasons to not share some given thing THAT DAY… but it’s really easy to get in the habit of holding things back, and then the relationship grows more and more empty, more and more distant.

It is possible, however (depending on how late in the game you already are), to start over and begin rebuilding and reconnecting.

]]> Comment on What To Do When He (Or She) Cheats by Mark http://www.amiracleaday.com/articles/2012/02/10/what-to-do-when-he-or-she-cheats/#comment-1216 Mark Wed, 15 Feb 2012 05:29:04 +0000 http://www.amiracleaday.com/?p=515#comment-1216 Wow. Wish I came across this a year and a half ago......might not be facing a divorce. Describes my situation perfectly. More men need to realize the following before its too late and they lose their spouse and everything they cherish to someone who talks more. " Over time, however, not sharing can lead to you growing apart, which can lead to the relationship being mostly empty, which can lead to the cheating." Thank you for posting this article. Wow. Wish I came across this a year and a half ago……might not be facing a divorce. Describes my situation perfectly.

More men need to realize the following before its too late and they lose their spouse and everything they cherish to someone who talks more.
” Over time, however, not sharing can lead to you growing apart, which can lead to the relationship being mostly empty, which can lead to the cheating.”

Thank you for posting this article.

]]> Comment on How To Deal With Insecurity’s Deadly Effect On Relationships by Jim http://www.amiracleaday.com/articles/2007/11/16/how-to-deal-with-insecuritys-deadly-effect-on-relationships/#comment-1205 Jim Tue, 07 Feb 2012 10:23:15 +0000 Thanks for this interesting advice, I think more people should now this. Ultimately many relationships end not because the two people aren't fit for each other, but simply because of issues and problems that could have been worked out - like insecurity. Thanks for this interesting advice, I think more people should now this. Ultimately many relationships end not because the two people aren’t fit for each other, but simply because of issues and problems that could have been worked out – like insecurity.

]]> Comment on The Five Levels Of Awareness by newly discovered http://www.amiracleaday.com/articles/2007/10/03/the-five-levels-of-awareness/#comment-1204 newly discovered Sat, 28 Jan 2012 08:05:24 +0000 There is another level. The connected awareness is the beginning of truth. It is your human perception perceiving the true source of you, and everything else in the false universe. Your perception and thought, your human, is essentially dissolving and allowing 'you' or your pure consciousness to begin to see the truth. The human perception and thought and individuality is itself a block for the absolute truth, though. The next level is when all of this dissolves or extinguishes entirely. When this happens, you become the source of everything. Indeed, the absolute truth of things are, is that everything is literally everything else, and that we only perceive time and space because we are alive. Once you extinguish yourself completely, you cease to exist in this false universe and become everything. There is another level. The connected awareness is the beginning of truth. It is your human perception perceiving the true source of you, and everything else in the false universe. Your perception and thought, your human, is essentially dissolving and allowing ‘you’ or your pure consciousness to begin to see the truth. The human perception and thought and individuality is itself a block for the absolute truth, though. The next level is when all of this dissolves or extinguishes entirely. When this happens, you become the source of everything. Indeed, the absolute truth of things are, is that everything is literally everything else, and that we only perceive time and space because we are alive. Once you extinguish yourself completely, you cease to exist in this false universe and become everything.

]]> Comment on 8 Ways To Show Your Husband You Love Him by Jason http://www.amiracleaday.com/articles/2007/08/15/8-ways-to-show-your-husband-you-love-him/#comment-1201 Jason Tue, 17 Jan 2012 18:37:08 +0000 You're welcome... it's easy to get used to things, and forget to appreciate them any more, to forget how much better "the norm" is than the way it was before. It's also easy to get to where you avoid things that cause discomfort or pain (of the mental/emotional variety), but feeling that pain is essential... you can't block out only negative emotions, so when you try to avoid all emotional pain, you end up avoiding all emotional joy, too. Instead, you need to let yourself feel the pain, let it pass over you and through you, and then it won't anchor so hard in you, leaving you with much more ability to find (and appreciate) the joy and beauty that is always around you. You’re welcome… it’s easy to get used to things, and forget to appreciate them any more, to forget how much better “the norm” is than the way it was before. It’s also easy to get to where you avoid things that cause discomfort or pain (of the mental/emotional variety), but feeling that pain is essential… you can’t block out only negative emotions, so when you try to avoid all emotional pain, you end up avoiding all emotional joy, too. Instead, you need to let yourself feel the pain, let it pass over you and through you, and then it won’t anchor so hard in you, leaving you with much more ability to find (and appreciate) the joy and beauty that is always around you.

]]> Comment on 7 Ways To Show Your Wife You Love Her by stephanie http://www.amiracleaday.com/articles/2007/11/15/7-ways-to-show-your-wife-you-love-her/#comment-1200 stephanie Tue, 17 Jan 2012 17:57:25 +0000 I think this man is amazing and knows what women want,on the other hand i have read the other side and really enjoyed reading about how us as women need to treat our men,i love mine so much and forget how important it is to show him and care for his feelings,i am going to do every bit of your advice and try making my husband the happiest man alive. Thank You I think this man is amazing and knows what women want,on the other hand i have read the other side and really enjoyed reading about how us as women need to treat our men,i love mine so much and forget how important it is to show him and care for his feelings,i am going to do every bit of your advice and try making my husband the happiest man alive. Thank You

]]> Comment on 8 Ways To Show Your Husband You Love Him by maggie http://www.amiracleaday.com/articles/2007/08/15/8-ways-to-show-your-husband-you-love-him/#comment-1199 maggie Tue, 17 Jan 2012 00:06:25 +0000 this info has really put things into prospective for me. i never really considered any of this and now reading this i can see where my husband is coming from when he says he doenst feel loved by me. i do love him so much but guess i have gotten so used to the rutt we are in and just thought this is what married life is like. in the start i was so touchy and feely always wanted to be in the bedroom very talkitive and after 6 yeas i guess that side of me has faded into the distance. i didnt even realise how unhappy and unloved he felt until things blew up on christmas day and he opened himself up to me and said he has been trying for the last year to see if we can make our family work but doesnt think it can anymore. i am constantly putting him down in front of his friends without eve realising it i guess it has become some what a second nature for me, and showing more interest in his friends and being nice to his friends that him and i have no idea why i do that. reading your article has given me a few things to focus on, he is this best man i have ever known i just hope we can get back to how it used to be thanks alot for this article. this info has really put things into prospective for me. i never really considered any of this and now reading this i can see where my husband is coming from when he says he doenst feel loved by me. i do love him so much but guess i have gotten so used to the rutt we are in and just thought this is what married life is like. in the start i was so touchy and feely always wanted to be in the bedroom very talkitive and after 6 yeas i guess that side of me has faded into the distance. i didnt even realise how unhappy and unloved he felt until things blew up on christmas day and he opened himself up to me and said he has been trying for the last year to see if we can make our family work but doesnt think it can anymore. i am constantly putting him down in front of his friends without eve realising it i guess it has become some what a second nature for me, and showing more interest in his friends and being nice to his friends that him and i have no idea why i do that. reading your article has given me a few things to focus on, he is this best man i have ever known i just hope we can get back to how it used to be thanks alot for this article.

]]> Comment on 8 Ways To Show Your Husband You Love Him by Tia Lee http://www.amiracleaday.com/articles/2007/08/15/8-ways-to-show-your-husband-you-love-him/#comment-1196 Tia Lee Wed, 11 Jan 2012 17:57:34 +0000 Jason, it is great for you to supply a site with kind thoughts and practices to cherish and hold a relationship together, offering ways that have worked for you, and likely others. I feel it unfortunate that Heather, clearly angry and likely alone, has to insult you through her commentary. Heather, if you feel there is better ways for Jason to write, then clearly there is room for you to improve your attitude and your comments and not just find an internet site to rant on while you hide behind the anonymity of cyber space an bullying your wee audience with you angry, polluted commentary. I really like the information provided - a thoughtful column that I found while cruising around the internet waiting for the frost to abate so my husband and I can go and work outside today in balmy January on the West Coast - my husband is a very strong man, and I a very strong woman, and it is good for us to compliment one another on our respective strengths - we do marry in order to complement and work together at making a life! Thank you Jason. Jason, it is great for you to supply a site with kind thoughts and practices to cherish and hold a relationship together, offering ways that have worked for you, and likely others. I feel it unfortunate that Heather, clearly angry and likely alone, has to insult you through her commentary. Heather, if you feel there is better ways for Jason to write, then clearly there is room for you to improve your attitude and your comments and not just find an internet site to rant on while you hide behind the anonymity of cyber space an bullying your wee audience with you angry, polluted commentary.

I really like the information provided – a thoughtful column that I found while cruising around the internet waiting for the frost to abate so my husband and I can go and work outside today in balmy January on the West Coast – my husband is a very strong man, and I a very strong woman, and it is good for us to compliment one another on our respective strengths – we do marry in order to complement and work together at making a life! Thank you Jason.

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